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Anonymous sent: Please don't post this if tumblr didn't put me on anonymous. Do you ever get anonymous hate mail? Like people just saying really mean stuff to you? I'm not popular by any means as a lolita and I don't post photos of myself but I keep getting hate messages...

I get them sometimes. I got them more when I was new than I do now. Usually I just deflect people’s stupidity with apt reactionary gifs.

That feel when you have the best gifs saved to respond to anon hate with, but you don’t seem to be getting any. Haha

I’m at Matsuri today!

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Romance Was Born

Avcon 2014: SundayAngelic Pretty Fancy Paper DollsJumperskirt, headbow, necklace: Angelic PrettyBlouse: Pumpkin CatSocks: Emily Temple CuteBag: MilkShoes: Secret ShopEverything else: Offbrand or handmade
Anonymous sent: why did a girl try to fight you?

She was angry at me for “wanting attention” because clearly there was no other reason why I’d be dressed like a “freak.” Haha

My house is in a good spot but my general area of Toronto is not the greatest. I live near a lot of people who think they’re tough.

lavenderprincess16 sent: Have u ever had anything weird happen to you in lolita? I know when I wear lolita , I get asked a lot if I'm going to a play which makes no sense at all.

I get that one all the time, too!

One time when I was wearing Lolita, a girl tried to fight me. Her boyfriend had to hold her back. It was HILARIOUS.

I was also harassed once by a drunk college guy in a mall parking lot while I was wearing toned down sweet. People are such idiots sometimes, aren’t they?