breadonglasses asked: Hello there, Steph :). I was wondering if you and Trumaine are still together. If so, I hope you guys get married in the future. The lolita wedding photos will be absolutely amazing! -Eri
Well! What a lovely message to come home to.
Yes, Trumaine and I are still together and very much in love!
I’m too young to get married, but man… I would love to get married in a Lolita wedding dress. Those intricate BTSSB ones always kill me dead. I’m pretty sure my family would collectively smack me if I tried to wear Lolita on my wedding day, though. I could… tone it down? Haha
This is the last time I’m going to address the things that have gone on between Kyandi and I regarding my order from her Etsy Shop Starlight Deco Dream. I wasn’t going to make a long drawn out post about it but after I saw this post on her blog (here is a photo of it encase she tries to…
Wait, you think that the rule “all sales final” has some sort of ambiguous meaning or something?
I think it means exactly what it says it means, and that Kyandi has every right to enforce it.
Think really hard about your purchase because all sales are final.
Done. Finito. As in cannot be reversed or cancelled.
Policies like this are not put in place to screw buyers over. Policies like this are put in place because individuals on the internet tend to make flippant purchases that they later have buyer’s remorse about. This phenomenon (which you have just exhibited) is extremely frustrating for sellers and crafters to deal with. For example, I’ve had people commission items from me (items that I made especially for them as per their request and instructions) just for them to have buyer’s remorse and back out of the transaction after I already made their stuff.
I completely disagree with Paypal’s decision to refund you, because they’re not refunding you over your items not arriving or being unsatisfactory/damaged. Instead, they’re refunding you because you didn’t evaluate your finances before you made the decision to press the purchase button.
Paypal rules in the buyer’s favor often, though, so I can’t say that I’m surprised even though I disagree.

This absolutely stunning drawing was given to me by my friend Erin. I love it so much and I can’t get over how gorgeous it is! Erin is a beautiful lolita and a wonderful artist. You can find her here: http://albinosharky.deviantart.com/
This drawing was based on my coordinate from AN last year. That coordinate is here: http://xxapollinexx.tumblr.com/post/24560555792
(via lovelylor)
This batch is all done!
Crobidoll Lance, Oldskin Volks F-08, Luts Darae, Unoa Lusis.
Wow your work I can’t even.
Ahhhh Cadney is coming back to NYC for a meetup on Saturday. I seriously can’t wait! <3
I CAN’T WAIT EITHER
I GET ON A PLANE TOMORROW MORNING AT 9AM YAY
We’re all gonna have a great time.









